Hi Rachel,
First for any saved drafts, to regain them click on the "Discussions" link in the top bar (or when you click on your user) there it will show you "My Discussions" ones that you have created and "My Drafts" and under there you will see any drafts you started, either comments on a post or a new post that you may initiated.
As for your icon, I see your face but I am not sure which photo you expect to see. I hope this is helpful :)
May 2012